I was reading from a site, I;m pretty sure it was howtobeaplayer.com. ANd i stumbled across something extremely interesting that I am most definetly going to try. WHen you want to ask out a girl temm her you are going to ask her out before u actually do. IE. I;m going to ask you out, but now right now...I:m not in the mood. Makes the girl think of u and wonder when its going down. Interest level rises. Try it out.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How to ask a girl out?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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mmm, test this first.
The Master Disaster
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intresting
I can see why it could be very effective.
Shows interest,
shows your in control
shows confidence (because you took the offer back)<--almost like a neg hit
builts mystery in her (she wants to know why you wont ask her out)
NICE JOB
Shows interest,
shows your in control
shows confidence (because you took the offer back)<--almost like a neg hit
builts mystery in her (she wants to know why you wont ask her out)
NICE JOB
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I've heard of a guy doing that before. I think he did end up getting the girl, but I've always thought of it as being dumb. If you wanna go out with her just ask her out. It sounds stupid saying "Yeah, I think I'm gonna ask you out...".
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Master Disaster
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You could also do it in a joking way. like "Ha, I'm gonna ask you out but not right now"
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its www.becomeaplayer.com - good site