I was reading from a site, I;m pretty sure it was howtobeaplayer.com. ANd i stumbled across something extremely interesting that I am most definetly going to try. WHen you want to ask out a girl temm her you are going to ask her out before u actually do. IE. I;m going to ask you out, but now right now...I:m not in the mood. Makes the girl think of u and wonder when its going down. Interest level rises. Try it out.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to ask a girl out?
- Thread starter kidkoala
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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mmm, test this first.
The Master Disaster
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intresting
I can see why it could be very effective.
Shows interest,
shows your in control
shows confidence (because you took the offer back)<--almost like a neg hit
builts mystery in her (she wants to know why you wont ask her out)
NICE JOB
Shows interest,
shows your in control
shows confidence (because you took the offer back)<--almost like a neg hit
builts mystery in her (she wants to know why you wont ask her out)
NICE JOB
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I've heard of a guy doing that before. I think he did end up getting the girl, but I've always thought of it as being dumb. If you wanna go out with her just ask her out. It sounds stupid saying "Yeah, I think I'm gonna ask you out...".
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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You could also do it in a joking way. like "Ha, I'm gonna ask you out but not right now"
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its www.becomeaplayer.com - good site