"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to ask a girl out?

kidkoala

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I was reading from a site, I;m pretty sure it was howtobeaplayer.com. ANd i stumbled across something extremely interesting that I am most definetly going to try. WHen you want to ask out a girl temm her you are going to ask her out before u actually do. IE. I;m going to ask you out, but now right now...I:m not in the mood. Makes the girl think of u and wonder when its going down. Interest level rises. Try it out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anomalous

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I can see why it could be very effective.

Shows interest,
shows your in control
shows confidence (because you took the offer back)<--almost like a neg hit
builts mystery in her (she wants to know why you wont ask her out)
NICE JOB:up:
 

familyguyfan

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I've heard of a guy doing that before. I think he did end up getting the girl, but I've always thought of it as being dumb. If you wanna go out with her just ask her out. It sounds stupid saying "Yeah, I think I'm gonna ask you out...".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tyciol

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So basically instead of saying 'let's go out later' you're saying 'let's go out later, later?'
 
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