I was reading from a site, I;m pretty sure it was howtobeaplayer.com. ANd i stumbled across something extremely interesting that I am most definetly going to try. WHen you want to ask out a girl temm her you are going to ask her out before u actually do. IE. I;m going to ask you out, but now right now...I:m not in the mood. Makes the girl think of u and wonder when its going down. Interest level rises. Try it out.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How to ask a girl out?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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mmm, test this first.
The Master Disaster
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intresting
I can see why it could be very effective.
Shows interest,
shows your in control
shows confidence (because you took the offer back)<--almost like a neg hit
builts mystery in her (she wants to know why you wont ask her out)
NICE JOB
Shows interest,
shows your in control
shows confidence (because you took the offer back)<--almost like a neg hit
builts mystery in her (she wants to know why you wont ask her out)
NICE JOB
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I've heard of a guy doing that before. I think he did end up getting the girl, but I've always thought of it as being dumb. If you wanna go out with her just ask her out. It sounds stupid saying "Yeah, I think I'm gonna ask you out...".
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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You could also do it in a joking way. like "Ha, I'm gonna ask you out but not right now"
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its www.becomeaplayer.com - good site