There's this one HB who's interested but haven't developed a good relationship yet. Chatted on fb a couple times and she gave me her #. Chatted in my class once but then the teacher rearranged the seats. I've seen her a couple times in the hall but she always just looks in off into the distance to avoid me. I don't know what to talk about, that's the problemo. We used to play the same sport and I talked about that but i'm feeling out of stuff to say. How do I approach
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
apocolipto
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Practice spontanious convo.Here is what I did once and it helped.
Make small cards with one word on each card.Look at one card and talk about that topic for 30 seconds. Next card, talk about that topic for 30 secs. You can do this alone. Eventually you will be able to come up with anything to talk about.
Make small cards with one word on each card.Look at one card and talk about that topic for 30 seconds. Next card, talk about that topic for 30 secs. You can do this alone. Eventually you will be able to come up with anything to talk about.
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
The teacher probably notice the romance going on:crackup:
apocolipto said:
That's genius and a great exercise. I think I"m going to give it a try. But yea man, like the guys said, first off practice talking to everybody. The beauty of practicing on everybody is that by the time you get to your dream girl, talking to her will be a piece of cake.
Next piece of advice would be to be present in the moment. Talking about class and school sports is boring. That's what average guys do but not you. You're Don Juan. With that said be present in the moment and that means start talking about what's going on around you at the time and LISTEN for her response. That's probably the most important thing.
Every sentence she gives you back will have a something you can build one. And that's where the card exercise should come into play. When you hear a word of her's, that will spark a story or a comment in your head that you can use.
Best of luck!
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
You have her number, why not just invite her somewhere out of school?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.