at my high school there is this girl and her locker is near mine she is very cute and i really want to know her but i am afraid, What should i say? after every period she comes to her locker to get books then leave so basically i have a 5 seconds seeing her what should i say please help i would appreciated it
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How to approach
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
she is single and i never talked to her, she seems nice, but the thing i am nervous about is that i am a sophomore and she is a freshmen idk is she might get freak out that a sophomore boy is talking to her i am pretty confident but in the back of mind i have doubt
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Just smile, introduce yourself and try to keep eye contact. The important thing being the big, genuine smile. Maybe start a conversation if you actually have time. If you just don't wanna do that for now, just do the first part. Im also sure there are other cute chicks with a locker near you? 
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Hey... (ec) what year are you in?
How is it?
What classes do you take?
(Smile)
I do art as well... How do you like it?
How is it?
What classes do you take?
(Smile)
I do art as well... How do you like it?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.