at my high school there is this girl and her locker is near mine she is very cute and i really want to know her but i am afraid, What should i say? after every period she comes to her locker to get books then leave so basically i have a 5 seconds seeing her what should i say please help i would appreciated it
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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she is single and i never talked to her, she seems nice, but the thing i am nervous about is that i am a sophomore and she is a freshmen idk is she might get freak out that a sophomore boy is talking to her i am pretty confident but in the back of mind i have doubt
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Just smile, introduce yourself and try to keep eye contact. The important thing being the big, genuine smile. Maybe start a conversation if you actually have time. If you just don't wanna do that for now, just do the first part. Im also sure there are other cute chicks with a locker near you? 
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Hey... (ec) what year are you in?
How is it?
What classes do you take?
(Smile)
I do art as well... How do you like it?
How is it?
What classes do you take?
(Smile)
I do art as well... How do you like it?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.