at my high school there is this girl and her locker is near mine she is very cute and i really want to know her but i am afraid, What should i say? after every period she comes to her locker to get books then leave so basically i have a 5 seconds seeing her what should i say please help i would appreciated it
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
she is single and i never talked to her, she seems nice, but the thing i am nervous about is that i am a sophomore and she is a freshmen idk is she might get freak out that a sophomore boy is talking to her i am pretty confident but in the back of mind i have doubt
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Just smile, introduce yourself and try to keep eye contact. The important thing being the big, genuine smile. Maybe start a conversation if you actually have time. If you just don't wanna do that for now, just do the first part. Im also sure there are other cute chicks with a locker near you? 
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Hey... (ec) what year are you in?
How is it?
What classes do you take?
(Smile)
I do art as well... How do you like it?
How is it?
What classes do you take?
(Smile)
I do art as well... How do you like it?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.