at my high school there is this girl and her locker is near mine she is very cute and i really want to know her but i am afraid, What should i say? after every period she comes to her locker to get books then leave so basically i have a 5 seconds seeing her what should i say please help i would appreciated it
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How to approach
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
she is single and i never talked to her, she seems nice, but the thing i am nervous about is that i am a sophomore and she is a freshmen idk is she might get freak out that a sophomore boy is talking to her i am pretty confident but in the back of mind i have doubt
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Just smile, introduce yourself and try to keep eye contact. The important thing being the big, genuine smile. Maybe start a conversation if you actually have time. If you just don't wanna do that for now, just do the first part. Im also sure there are other cute chicks with a locker near you? 
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Hey... (ec) what year are you in?
How is it?
What classes do you take?
(Smile)
I do art as well... How do you like it?
How is it?
What classes do you take?
(Smile)
I do art as well... How do you like it?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.