When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dude, I can't help but notice that you talk alot of sh!t. Anyway, thanks for guys giving good input, like Gary and SELF.Gamernub said:You're a noob
I agree! Thank god there are at least some posters living in the REAL world!SELF-MASTERY said:^^^
Come on get real... Did you come up with this from your mom's basement?
So, a guy is suppose to sit back and listen to you fluff talk his girl, ask him about his jean, and then try to number close his chick??? Get Real!
I don't care how smooth your mother and her friends say you are- there's no way her BF will stand for this.
Try this around a real man and you are going to get shutdown in a heart beat: "Get the **** out of here."
Where do you fools come from??? WTF
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DonJuanForever said:Out of the 10 guys approaching a hb a week, only one gets in. Which one? The one with the masculinity. Guys that do what you guys are posting, are not masculine. For one, if you are so "good" if you see her with her man, why are you hell bent on getting into a fight just to get her. You guys think it's a game, as if you can "look" at somebody and determine if you can whoop his azz, lol, lol, lol. You don't know what the hell he's holding, nor, who the hell he's here with. Some guys will kill another dude over a girl, is it worth it? Why not just wait until she's alone you dumbazzes. While you're going out thinking you are Steve Austin, I bet you won't feel so don juan and suave laying in the hospital after that guy you thought was a bytch, jit-jitzu'ed your azz and broke your arm, your leg, and your neck.
And oh yah, another thing. If the girl is with a don juan, you are one of those other 9 guys she rejects, so she just might help him break your arm.
You guys need a life, lol. All these single, bored, hot women out here and you wanna fvck wit Tupac's girl. haahahah
You guys need a life, lol. All these single, bored, hot women out here and you wanna fvck wit Tupac's girl. haahahah
Damn right!SELF-MASTERY said:Threads like this one really show why PUA tactics are nothing, but nerd science gone wrong.
----Now my wing distracts him while I game his girl and he doesn't notice me doing a magic trick I learned from mystery.---- Get Real...
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
OMG a troll or afc alert there is another thread similar to this oneReloaded said:I don't like approaching women when they are with other men. What should I do about this problem?
Your post here and this topic (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=105083) prove that you are, in fact, and AFC AND a troll. My advice to you is to shut the f u c k up, turn off your computer, put away the lotion and go get laid.dreamxhenry_notAFC said:OMG a troll or afc alert there is another thread similar to this one
http/www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php=3ft=3d105037&page=3d2
its about a another guy hitting on your girlfriend
read that thread,then ask the guy who started the thread your question it will solve your problems.
Sig'dDeus ex Pianoforte said:And waiting until she goes to the bathroom or until the dude gets distracted is pus$y $hit. That's like punching a guy in the sack while he sleeps, then running out of the room before he can turn on the lights to see who it was.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.