Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dude, I can't help but notice that you talk alot of sh!t. Anyway, thanks for guys giving good input, like Gary and SELF.Gamernub said:You're a noob
I agree! Thank god there are at least some posters living in the REAL world!SELF-MASTERY said:^^^
Come on get real... Did you come up with this from your mom's basement?
So, a guy is suppose to sit back and listen to you fluff talk his girl, ask him about his jean, and then try to number close his chick??? Get Real!
I don't care how smooth your mother and her friends say you are- there's no way her BF will stand for this.
Try this around a real man and you are going to get shutdown in a heart beat: "Get the **** out of here."
Where do you fools come from??? WTF
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DonJuanForever said:Out of the 10 guys approaching a hb a week, only one gets in. Which one? The one with the masculinity. Guys that do what you guys are posting, are not masculine. For one, if you are so "good" if you see her with her man, why are you hell bent on getting into a fight just to get her. You guys think it's a game, as if you can "look" at somebody and determine if you can whoop his azz, lol, lol, lol. You don't know what the hell he's holding, nor, who the hell he's here with. Some guys will kill another dude over a girl, is it worth it? Why not just wait until she's alone you dumbazzes. While you're going out thinking you are Steve Austin, I bet you won't feel so don juan and suave laying in the hospital after that guy you thought was a bytch, jit-jitzu'ed your azz and broke your arm, your leg, and your neck.
And oh yah, another thing. If the girl is with a don juan, you are one of those other 9 guys she rejects, so she just might help him break your arm.
You guys need a life, lol. All these single, bored, hot women out here and you wanna fvck wit Tupac's girl. haahahah
You guys need a life, lol. All these single, bored, hot women out here and you wanna fvck wit Tupac's girl. haahahah
Damn right!SELF-MASTERY said:Threads like this one really show why PUA tactics are nothing, but nerd science gone wrong.
----Now my wing distracts him while I game his girl and he doesn't notice me doing a magic trick I learned from mystery.---- Get Real...
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
OMG a troll or afc alert there is another thread similar to this oneReloaded said:I don't like approaching women when they are with other men. What should I do about this problem?
Your post here and this topic (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=105083) prove that you are, in fact, and AFC AND a troll. My advice to you is to shut the f u c k up, turn off your computer, put away the lotion and go get laid.dreamxhenry_notAFC said:OMG a troll or afc alert there is another thread similar to this one
http/www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php=3ft=3d105037&page=3d2
its about a another guy hitting on your girlfriend
read that thread,then ask the guy who started the thread your question it will solve your problems.
Sig'dDeus ex Pianoforte said:And waiting until she goes to the bathroom or until the dude gets distracted is pus$y $hit. That's like punching a guy in the sack while he sleeps, then running out of the room before he can turn on the lights to see who it was.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.