"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to act in a REALATIONSHIP?

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this is simple, im in a relationship and im 21 years old never been in one in my life. list some DO's and DONT'S
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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type of girl?
the type of relationship you want?
 
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Do's and Don'ts
-Don't tell her how much you like her everyday or love
-Don't call her everyday
-Don't have to see her everyday
-Don't do everything she wants to do
-Don't do everything for her
-Don't buy her gifts all the time
-Don't take any disrespect
-Be aggressive
-Be confident
-Be the alpha male
-Tease her/make fun of her (playfully)
-Make the descions
-Be the leader
-Don't take sh!t
-Ask her how her day was
-Tell her she looks good, smells good, compliment her hair... Not too much
-Be a gentlemen
-Stand up for her

Anyways the list can go on and on and on. These are just some ideas to get you on the right track.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Do's and Don'ts
-Don't tell her how much you like her everyday or love
-Don't call her everyday
-Don't have to see her everyday
-Don't do everything she wants to do
-Don't do everything for her
-Don't buy her gifts all the time
-Don't take any disrespect
-Be aggressive
-Be confident
-Be the alpha male
-Tease her/make fun of her (playfully)
-Make the descions
-Be the leader
-Don't take sh!t
-Ask her how her day was
-Tell her she looks good, smells good, compliment her hair... Not too much
-Be a gentlemen
-Stand up for her

Anyways the list can go on and on and on. These are just some ideas to get you on the right track.
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you forgot an important one

do - plan to bang all her friends :crackup: in good time
 
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I think most importantly...KNOW what you want...If you have never been in a relationship before and are anxious to get into one, know exactly what you want first. I wasted two years because I did not know what I wanted.

If you are not getting what you want don't kid yourself, move on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't get too comfortable in the relationship...EVER...she will begin thinking about the guy you used to be and begin thinking about trading you up for someone else whose like that guy you used to be or in her eyes better.

Don't ignore behaviour change in her. Whether its bad by acting disrespectful towards you or good by being better than she ever has. Behaviour change of any type typically spells trouble usually of the cheating variety. Either she's going to leave you or she wants you to forgive her for cheating depending on which extreme behaviour change she exhibits out of these most of the time. Extreme behaviour change can also indicate she's pregnant but scared of telling you or she wants you to ask her to marry you but yeah extreme behaviour change is something you always have to be wary of and keep an eye out for. Its usually bad news.
 
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keep it coming

Wow solid advice..... And for the guy that asked the type? She’s had a bf for 2 years, first everything with her. She’s getting over him I’m not rebound guy he’s long gone...so I'm competing with her ex that she had a very close connection with, hard competition. He’s holding on to the alpha male role pretty good, taking he had a huge head start, and for the other guy I know what I want I haven’t been in a relationship because I never thought any girl was worth trying ........... once again in a relationship dos and don’ts now?
 
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i notice the game all u guys want to play shes playing it on me and its driving me crazy (don't call everyday, don't chill everyday, u have other things to do, but same time show u care) lol grls got me wiped dude some word of advice from my brothers on this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sure it just that she's not really bothered about you, rather than playing games?

Just thought I'd make you feel more insecure about things ;)
 
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Do NOT fall in "Love", "Lust" with her!!! Unless she is your wife!!!
 
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what's the meaning of "Don't get too comfortable in the relationship"?
 
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