"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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this is simple, im in a relationship and im 21 years old never been in one in my life. list some DO's and DONT'S
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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type of girl?
the type of relationship you want?
 
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Do's and Don'ts
-Don't tell her how much you like her everyday or love
-Don't call her everyday
-Don't have to see her everyday
-Don't do everything she wants to do
-Don't do everything for her
-Don't buy her gifts all the time
-Don't take any disrespect
-Be aggressive
-Be confident
-Be the alpha male
-Tease her/make fun of her (playfully)
-Make the descions
-Be the leader
-Don't take sh!t
-Ask her how her day was
-Tell her she looks good, smells good, compliment her hair... Not too much
-Be a gentlemen
-Stand up for her

Anyways the list can go on and on and on. These are just some ideas to get you on the right track.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Do's and Don'ts
-Don't tell her how much you like her everyday or love
-Don't call her everyday
-Don't have to see her everyday
-Don't do everything she wants to do
-Don't do everything for her
-Don't buy her gifts all the time
-Don't take any disrespect
-Be aggressive
-Be confident
-Be the alpha male
-Tease her/make fun of her (playfully)
-Make the descions
-Be the leader
-Don't take sh!t
-Ask her how her day was
-Tell her she looks good, smells good, compliment her hair... Not too much
-Be a gentlemen
-Stand up for her

Anyways the list can go on and on and on. These are just some ideas to get you on the right track.
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you forgot an important one

do - plan to bang all her friends :crackup: in good time
 
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I think most importantly...KNOW what you want...If you have never been in a relationship before and are anxious to get into one, know exactly what you want first. I wasted two years because I did not know what I wanted.

If you are not getting what you want don't kid yourself, move on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't get too comfortable in the relationship...EVER...she will begin thinking about the guy you used to be and begin thinking about trading you up for someone else whose like that guy you used to be or in her eyes better.

Don't ignore behaviour change in her. Whether its bad by acting disrespectful towards you or good by being better than she ever has. Behaviour change of any type typically spells trouble usually of the cheating variety. Either she's going to leave you or she wants you to forgive her for cheating depending on which extreme behaviour change she exhibits out of these most of the time. Extreme behaviour change can also indicate she's pregnant but scared of telling you or she wants you to ask her to marry you but yeah extreme behaviour change is something you always have to be wary of and keep an eye out for. Its usually bad news.
 
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keep it coming

Wow solid advice..... And for the guy that asked the type? She’s had a bf for 2 years, first everything with her. She’s getting over him I’m not rebound guy he’s long gone...so I'm competing with her ex that she had a very close connection with, hard competition. He’s holding on to the alpha male role pretty good, taking he had a huge head start, and for the other guy I know what I want I haven’t been in a relationship because I never thought any girl was worth trying ........... once again in a relationship dos and don’ts now?
 
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i notice the game all u guys want to play shes playing it on me and its driving me crazy (don't call everyday, don't chill everyday, u have other things to do, but same time show u care) lol grls got me wiped dude some word of advice from my brothers on this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sure it just that she's not really bothered about you, rather than playing games?

Just thought I'd make you feel more insecure about things ;)
 
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Do NOT fall in "Love", "Lust" with her!!! Unless she is your wife!!!
 
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what's the meaning of "Don't get too comfortable in the relationship"?
 
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