"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to act at parties?

Doe Boii

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I go to parties alot mostly ones with hip hop/rap music playin, and all da freak girls there dancin. Now even though i know most of the people at the parties, I always feel kinda "weird" at parties. Like i'm not good enough to be there or somethin but it's a weird feelin and i dont even try to talk to girls cuz i think in terms of rejection/embarrasment. I just dont know how to act at parties could sumone gimme some advice?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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michaelhctam

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Doe Boii said:
I go to parties alot mostly ones with hip hop/rap music playin, and all da freak girls there dancin. Now even though i know most of the people at the parties, I always feel kinda "weird" at parties. Like i'm not good enough to be there or somethin but it's a weird feelin and i dont even try to talk to girls cuz i think in terms of rejection/embarrasment. I just dont know how to act at parties could sumone gimme some advice?
This is a great way to meet people! This is a good oppurtunity! Just grab a drink and relax.....then when no one is looking run towards the nearest fire alarm and turn it on so all the water is pouring out of the sprinklers and when every one is panicking and clawing for the fire exit, just sit there and cry. Its really attractive. :crackup:

Sorry my sense of humor is really dry and weird I apologize, hahahaha.

Have some more self-confidence in yourself man! You are totally good enough to talk to anybody in the party! Dont have this mentality......whenever people are at parties what is the first thing that is on everybodies mind? Besides sex is to sociolize! By sociolizing you are fufilling the purpose of what a party does.

I havent been to many hip/hop parties....so I cant really tell, but I'm just chipping in my thoughts.

Funny joke eh? (not really)..............(-_-)"
 

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This is a great way to meet people! This is a good oppurtunity! Just grab a drink and relax.....then when no one is looking run towards the nearest fire alarm and turn it on so all the water is pouring out of the sprinklers and when every one is panicking and clawing for the fire exit, just sit there and cry. Its really attractive.
Whatttt? Now I know the next time a fire alarm is pulled, I just have to look for the emo kid that is crying because his makeup is running. (not meant for you, just improving your joke)

:D
 

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learn to break dance...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rock_Solid

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I always assert myself at the beginning of the night by saying high to everyone and getting into some conversations with some sets. By the end of the night, everyone will be loving you in there drunken haze.
 

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drink, not till u're drunk but till you're "happy" you'll know what to do and feel no embarassment if someone rejects you :)
 

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How to act at parties -

Lets think about what partying means. Partying means to have fun,act crazy,go insane,hit on chicks,have the time of your life. So when your at a party be the guy who is outgoing and introduces himself to everyone. Be the life of the party.
 
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