Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to act at parties?

Doe Boii

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I go to parties alot mostly ones with hip hop/rap music playin, and all da freak girls there dancin. Now even though i know most of the people at the parties, I always feel kinda "weird" at parties. Like i'm not good enough to be there or somethin but it's a weird feelin and i dont even try to talk to girls cuz i think in terms of rejection/embarrasment. I just dont know how to act at parties could sumone gimme some advice?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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michaelhctam

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Doe Boii said:
I go to parties alot mostly ones with hip hop/rap music playin, and all da freak girls there dancin. Now even though i know most of the people at the parties, I always feel kinda "weird" at parties. Like i'm not good enough to be there or somethin but it's a weird feelin and i dont even try to talk to girls cuz i think in terms of rejection/embarrasment. I just dont know how to act at parties could sumone gimme some advice?
This is a great way to meet people! This is a good oppurtunity! Just grab a drink and relax.....then when no one is looking run towards the nearest fire alarm and turn it on so all the water is pouring out of the sprinklers and when every one is panicking and clawing for the fire exit, just sit there and cry. Its really attractive. :crackup:

Sorry my sense of humor is really dry and weird I apologize, hahahaha.

Have some more self-confidence in yourself man! You are totally good enough to talk to anybody in the party! Dont have this mentality......whenever people are at parties what is the first thing that is on everybodies mind? Besides sex is to sociolize! By sociolizing you are fufilling the purpose of what a party does.

I havent been to many hip/hop parties....so I cant really tell, but I'm just chipping in my thoughts.

Funny joke eh? (not really)..............(-_-)"
 

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This is a great way to meet people! This is a good oppurtunity! Just grab a drink and relax.....then when no one is looking run towards the nearest fire alarm and turn it on so all the water is pouring out of the sprinklers and when every one is panicking and clawing for the fire exit, just sit there and cry. Its really attractive.
Whatttt? Now I know the next time a fire alarm is pulled, I just have to look for the emo kid that is crying because his makeup is running. (not meant for you, just improving your joke)

:D
 

The Shocker

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learn to break dance...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rock_Solid

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I always assert myself at the beginning of the night by saying high to everyone and getting into some conversations with some sets. By the end of the night, everyone will be loving you in there drunken haze.
 

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drink, not till u're drunk but till you're "happy" you'll know what to do and feel no embarassment if someone rejects you :)
 

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How to act at parties -

Lets think about what partying means. Partying means to have fun,act crazy,go insane,hit on chicks,have the time of your life. So when your at a party be the guy who is outgoing and introduces himself to everyone. Be the life of the party.
 
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