JaegerPilot217
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goals, mission, purpose, they have to be the number 1 priority in a guys life, which is boring to me but oh well, **** it
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
how the hell do you meet new people?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TheGambino
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Get your life sorted out first be4 you think about chicks. Find something you like, get a descent job and work your way up. A girl want some1 with ambition mate, but do it for yourself. Improve yourself, find a GYM (its +++ in every aspect even if u have to take the bus to get there). Improve yourself and love your life then the girls will notice you. If your busy improving yourself, your gonna meet people who do the same
evan12
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31 and broke?
you have to work your ass off to make up the years of laziness , you have no solution with your current state , small towns are for married families and not the best place to meet girls .
so stop crying and looking for magic solution and go study some thing and work by the age of 34 you will be graduated and may be with a woman from university .
you have to work your ass off to make up the years of laziness , you have no solution with your current state , small towns are for married families and not the best place to meet girls .
so stop crying and looking for magic solution and go study some thing and work by the age of 34 you will be graduated and may be with a woman from university .
JaegerPilot217
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Pretty much the only way women need to improve themselves is just physically, men need to be the whole packageTheGambino said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
JaegerPilot217
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The hardest part is being proactive and at the same time not be desperate, avoid trying too hard
CrimsonPanther
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what is wrong with that? O_Okartofel said:
JaegerPilot217
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If they are under 18 then that's negativeCrimsonPanther said:
CrimsonPanther
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true. luckily in my country the legal age is 16. i keep forgetting most here are from the US. sorry mate.JaegerPilot217 said:
BraddH
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Then what do you find interesting?JaegerPilot217 said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.