"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how the hell do you meet new people?

JaegerPilot217

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goals, mission, purpose, they have to be the number 1 priority in a guys life, which is boring to me but oh well, **** it
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Get your life sorted out first be4 you think about chicks. Find something you like, get a descent job and work your way up. A girl want some1 with ambition mate, but do it for yourself. Improve yourself, find a GYM (its +++ in every aspect even if u have to take the bus to get there). Improve yourself and love your life then the girls will notice you. If your busy improving yourself, your gonna meet people who do the same
 

evan12

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31 and broke?
you have to work your ass off to make up the years of laziness , you have no solution with your current state , small towns are for married families and not the best place to meet girls .
so stop crying and looking for magic solution and go study some thing and work by the age of 34 you will be graduated and may be with a woman from university .
 

JaegerPilot217

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TheGambino said:
Get your life sorted out first be4 you think about chicks. Find something you like, get a descent job and work your way up. A girl want some1 with ambition mate, but do it for yourself. Improve yourself, find a GYM (its +++ in every aspect even if u have to take the bus to get there). Improve yourself and love your life then the girls will notice you. If your busy improving yourself, your gonna meet people who do the same
Pretty much the only way women need to improve themselves is just physically, men need to be the whole package
 

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U can meet women anywhere

Matter fact, I just got a chicks number from Walmart on a munchies-run
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JaegerPilot217

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The hardest part is being proactive and at the same time not be desperate, avoid trying too hard
 

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kartofel said:
31 year old guy lurking and hitting on high school women? are you mentally sane?
what is wrong with that? O_O
 

CrimsonPanther

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JaegerPilot217 said:
If they are under 18 then that's negative
true. luckily in my country the legal age is 16. i keep forgetting most here are from the US. sorry mate.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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