JaegerPilot217
Master Don Juan
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goals, mission, purpose, they have to be the number 1 priority in a guys life, which is boring to me but oh well, **** it
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Pretty much the only way women need to improve themselves is just physically, men need to be the whole packageTheGambino said:Get your life sorted out first be4 you think about chicks. Find something you like, get a descent job and work your way up. A girl want some1 with ambition mate, but do it for yourself. Improve yourself, find a GYM (its +++ in every aspect even if u have to take the bus to get there). Improve yourself and love your life then the girls will notice you. If your busy improving yourself, your gonna meet people who do the same
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
what is wrong with that? O_Okartofel said:31 year old guy lurking and hitting on high school women? are you mentally sane?
If they are under 18 then that's negativeCrimsonPanther said:what is wrong with that? O_O
true. luckily in my country the legal age is 16. i keep forgetting most here are from the US. sorry mate.JaegerPilot217 said:If they are under 18 then that's negative
Then what do you find interesting?JaegerPilot217 said:goals, mission, purpose, they have to be the number 1 priority in a guys life, which is boring to me but oh well, **** it
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.