JaegerPilot217
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goals, mission, purpose, they have to be the number 1 priority in a guys life, which is boring to me but oh well, **** it
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
how the hell do you meet new people?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
TheGambino
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Get your life sorted out first be4 you think about chicks. Find something you like, get a descent job and work your way up. A girl want some1 with ambition mate, but do it for yourself. Improve yourself, find a GYM (its +++ in every aspect even if u have to take the bus to get there). Improve yourself and love your life then the girls will notice you. If your busy improving yourself, your gonna meet people who do the same
evan12
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31 and broke?
you have to work your ass off to make up the years of laziness , you have no solution with your current state , small towns are for married families and not the best place to meet girls .
so stop crying and looking for magic solution and go study some thing and work by the age of 34 you will be graduated and may be with a woman from university .
you have to work your ass off to make up the years of laziness , you have no solution with your current state , small towns are for married families and not the best place to meet girls .
so stop crying and looking for magic solution and go study some thing and work by the age of 34 you will be graduated and may be with a woman from university .
JaegerPilot217
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Pretty much the only way women need to improve themselves is just physically, men need to be the whole packageTheGambino said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
JaegerPilot217
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The hardest part is being proactive and at the same time not be desperate, avoid trying too hard
CrimsonPanther
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what is wrong with that? O_Okartofel said:
JaegerPilot217
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If they are under 18 then that's negativeCrimsonPanther said:
CrimsonPanther
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true. luckily in my country the legal age is 16. i keep forgetting most here are from the US. sorry mate.JaegerPilot217 said:
BraddH
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Then what do you find interesting?JaegerPilot217 said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.