“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How tall do you like your gf?

What is the height you prefer?


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Le Parisien

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Ideally between 5'7 and 5'8, that's between 170cm and 173cm. Long legs...:up: Yummy...:D

Just for the info, I'm 5'8-5'9 (174 cm) myself... I know, I'm an average/short guy who digs tall chicks...;)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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They're all the same height when they're on their back. It's pretty much the same if they are on their knees or on all fours. :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hitman10000

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I dated a girl that was similar height to me 5'11" and I'd think I want to date a girl that was at most 3 inches shorter than me. It's a comfort issue for me.
 

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Per the usual, Francisco has great advice! On this poll you should have included it doesn't matter. For me, 5 foot to 6 foot is fine with me and I will not exclude dating shorter or taller. I am all about equal opportunity.
 

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Passion said:
how talllllll
Short, skinny, a little shapely... and good and stacked (top and bottom)... had one girlfriend a while back to those specs and damn I miss her... her body anyway (~5'2", 105 lbs). Most of the girls I've dated have been around my height or shorter (5'9") of varying sizes... but none really to my absolute preference. :cry:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
They're all the same height when they're on their back. It's pretty much the same if they are on their knees or on all fours. :up:
Actually, I've found that if the height gap is maybe 8" or more, then doggystyle is more awkward because they are noticeably lower than you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Archaxis said:
Short, skinny, a little shapely... and good and stacked (top and bottom)... had one girlfriend a while back to those specs and damn I miss her... her body anyway (~5'2", 105 lbs). Most of the girls I've dated have been around my height or shorter (5'9") of varying sizes... but none really to my absolute preference. :cry:
That is exactly the type of girls I like the most, 5'2" and 105 lbs. Not a lot of them around though. I prefer shorter girls because they make me feel "bigger".

by the way I'm 5'10", some people say that's average, some might even say its short... I do wish i was taller.
 

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Cute, small girls are awesome. 5'2-5'4". Thicker rather than skinnier. That's not to say there aren't a whole lot of tall, knockout girls, but these are my "type."
 

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I'm more of a 5'6-5'7 kind of guy since I'm only 5'9 and like to feel tall but not be so tall it's a little awkard. I dated a girl that was 5'2, and in bed it was fine but everywhere else it was just difficult.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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wayword said:
Actually, I've found that if the height gap is maybe 8" or more, then doggystyle is more awkward because they are noticeably lower than you.
Does this have anything to do with midgets? ;)

Actually if it's a big deal, consider standing next to the bed while she's on all fours on the bed. :up:
 

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MightyMate said:
I like small sexy *****es on high heeled shoes
I'm with you on that one. I'm seeing this one woman who always wears heels all of the time. They aren't stilettos but it's still all good. I'm so glad she's not into flip-flops. :down:
 

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I think the "ideal" height would be around 5'7" (I'm 6 flat). But it doesn't make a huge difference to me, my current gf is 5'2".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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