"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How strict is your state about masks?

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Our Governor (a Democrat) is talking about enforcing a mandate, but so far, there isn't one. The only thing a business can do (if they ask you to wear one and you don't) is have you arrested for "trespassing."



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Yes, on the entrance doors. Most have the words "mandatory" but some use the word "encouraged." Oddly enough though, over 90% will say nothing if you walk in without one. 90% of the customers conform. 95% of the employees conform. Over half that I've asked don't like wearing one. I don't wear one. And I hope that others seeing me being served without a mask will think twice about



I keep waiting for this to happen, but so far it hasn't. I've already got my line prepared ... which is... "I can understand putting on a Santa uniform for children at Christmas because they are.. ya know... young and impressionable. I never thought I'd see the day when I'd be asked to coddle adults in the same manner. You are an adult of sound mind.... right?"
Don't let your need to make a witty quip ruin the day of some grocery store employee enforcing a rule their boss is making them. I can guarantee you I don't give a **** about masks but would enforce any rules my boss made me to be able to pay rent.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Seeing no masks a lot in gas stations now.
 

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Don't let your need to make a witty quip ruin the day of some grocery store employee enforcing a rule their boss is making them. I can guarantee you I don't give a **** about masks but would enforce any rules my boss made me to be able to pay rent.
I'm on the same page as you 100%. My flippancy would only be directed to smarmy behaved business owners.
 

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I think that is not hard to wear masks just for a couple of.. years? even if it will be a couple of years, it helps.
 

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I stopped going to Walmart, because they're being mask nazis. I started going to other places where almost all of the customers wear masks, but where the employees don't try to enforce a mask policy.

Still, if I'm asked to wear one, I will put one on, but only if I'm asked by an employee. They don't get paid enough to get fuucked with by customers.

The way I figure it, if everyone would only put on a mask when directly asked, this nonsense would disappear overnight. The solution isn't to be a diick to minimum wage employees who are just doing what they're told. The problem is that too many people comply without even being asked.
Circle K gas station not far from me. Circle K is the place to go if u don’t like masks
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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I personally relate this pointless argument to a valuable lesson learned firsthand in the military:
Told tear gas bad for you-wore a mask
Told Covid bad for you-wearing a mask
 

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There's already talk from one side of the aisle about implementing a national face mask mandate.....
 

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There's already talk from one side of the aisle about implementing a national face mask mandate.....
Extraordinary times require extraordinary measures…
We’re not in Kansas anymore Toto
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I think we'll be wearing masks the rest of our lives, Covid or no Covid.
From here it's just a small hop to protecting everyone from the flu and every other communicable disease.
 

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I think we'll be wearing masks the rest of our lives, Covid or no Covid.
From here it's just a small hop to protecting everyone from the flu and every other communicable disease.
I will not. I will move to where no one else is either. If that requires leaving the U.S., all the better.
 

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I personally relate this pointless argument to a valuable lesson learned firsthand in the military:
Told tear gas bad for you-wore a mask
Told Covid bad for you-wearing a mask
That's your argument? Blindly follow orders.
 

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That's your argument? Blindly follow orders.
My argument is there is no argument to be made when people who know more about a serious health issue than I do advise me to do what’s best for myself, and others.
High death risk category-Wear a mask for myself and others
Low death risk category-Respectfully and unselfishly wear a mask for others

A vaccine and other meds Will be coming, this isn’t a lifelong inconvenience …
 

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My argument is there is no argument to be made when people who know more about a serious health issue than I do advise me to do what’s best for myself, and others.
High death risk category-Wear a mask for myself and others
Low death risk category-Respectfully and unselfishly wear a mask for others

A vaccine and other meds Will be coming, this isn’t a lifelong inconvenience …
Blindly follow orders
Got it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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One thing I've been seeing more of lately is people will be wearing masks but they'll have it pulled down under their nose, so they can breathe better I imagine. This seems especially common among females and employees. The employees have to wear them all day so no surprise there.

That probably isn't that bad of a practice if you think about it. I've always thought the main purpose most masks served was that it kept you from spitting on the other person if you talked to them. That's still the case even if they have their nose out.
 

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My argument is there is no argument to be made when people who know more about a serious health issue than I do advise me to do what’s best for myself, and others.
High death risk category-Wear a mask for myself and others
Low death risk category-Respectfully and unselfishly wear a mask for others

A vaccine and other meds Will be coming, this isn’t a lifelong inconvenience …
I have an avg immune system and avg genetics. There's nothing special about my wiring. In fact, because I smoke two packs a day and eat processed foods and in my mid 50's, I'm probably considered a "higher risk" .. but guess what?

I'm around 50 new people per day (six days a week) and 98% of the time no mask... and no problems here.

The only argument left "oh, I'm being selfish because I might be a carrier of covid."
The good news is ... if you have an avg immune system and no preexisting health problems... I suspect that you'll be just fine like me. And for those that do have a compromised immune system or are over 60 etc... why would they willingly go out and potentially subject themselves? It's their choice to do so of course, but the fault doesn't lie on me. It's on them.
 

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I have an avg immune system and avg genetics. There's nothing special about my wiring. In fact, because I smoke two packs a day and eat processed foods and in my mid 50's, I'm probably considered a "higher risk" .. but guess what?

I'm around 50 new people per day (six days a week) and 98% of the time no mask... and no problems here.

The only argument left "oh, I'm being selfish because I might be a carrier of covid."
The good news is ... if you have an avg immune system and no preexisting health problems... I suspect that you'll be just fine like me. And for those that do have a compromised immune system or are over 60 etc... why would they willingly go out and potentially subject themselves? It's their choice to do so of course, but the fault doesn't lie on me. It's on them.
You are definitely high risk and you’ve been lucky.

Problem with the US is a lot of people have this reckless attitude and assume they are fine simply because the virus hasn’t yet overwhelmed their area with community spread. We saw this with all the ****y dumbass governors in Florida, Texas, and Georgia. If you didn’t get this virus yet, odds are it’s just luck.

I work in an office where close to 50% of the employees had it March-April. We had relatives of my coworkers die from COVID-19. I tested twice negative for antibodies. I started working from home two weeks before they did. Don’t buy into the asymptomatic bullshvt. Odds are you didn’t have it.
 

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MY state, a rich state, has signs everywhere and if the business/place is matriarchal then I'll get lip-service and turned away for not wearing a mask. If the place is patriarchal then they'll turn the other cheek and grin n' nod. I'm finding that the Rich, you know, those on golf courses/country clubs etc are the MOST duped by this whole charade, because it PAYS to be Politically Correct. That's how they got their money in the first place, by Obeying this sinister Religion established a few decades ago, now in full force. The rich are cowards and sickening traitors and turncoats, untrustworthy, stupid, and would sell their children (souls) for a buck. Sure I find a couple who wink n' nod and discuss suspicion that we all know deep down is wholly warranted, given the abject lack of morality in our country/world today. Highway theft, graft...Swindling is at an all-time High. The masses are so easily duped. It's sad.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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