"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How should I respond to this text?

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Milks

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Or should I not respond at all? And try one more time in a week?

I know her IL is kinda low it's just I felt like I was doing so well... And I was soo close. You can read my journal if u want more insight:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210925

Anyway heres the convo:

Me:Hey whats up, it's Milks from calc
Her:Hey :) & nothing much. Hbu?
Me:Great. Hey I was thinking we should go bowling this week, is Friday or Saturday a better day for u?
Her:I already have plans Friday & then I work on Saturday.
Me:Alright, then we'll go next week. When r u free?
Her:I have absolutely no clue.

I just really want to get atleast a date. I feel like id be able to change her mind
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GetBetter

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The feeling I get is she is not interested at all otherwise she would have managed her time to out with you.
 
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GetBetter said:
The feeling I get is she is not interested at all otherwise she would have managed her time to out with you.
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Yeah, she's definitely not interested, that's no question. I just wanna know if there's something I can do to raise her IL or anything. I was never really experienced when it came to girls, and I feel like with this girl I've done better than I have with past ones. I just don't wanna start all over with a new girl seeing as how I've tried pretty hard with this one.

I feel like I can still do something to turn it around. I'm probably just giving myself false hope and living in a fantasy. Idk... it just sucks man.

I decided to just not respond. I guess I'll try again in a week, if she dodges again then I'll just have to give up for good.
 
devilkingx2

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if you know her really well and have been trying to get her for weeks, give up and move on

if this is just the beginning, keep on trucking

if she hasn't seen your bag of tricks, her IL could go up, if she already knows you enough to judge what she thinks of you, then it's over her mind won't change unless you change radically and suddenly for some reason.
 
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I don't know her that well. Ive barely had more than 10 mins of convo with this chick.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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