"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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How should I respond to this text?

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Or should I not respond at all? And try one more time in a week?

I know her IL is kinda low it's just I felt like I was doing so well... And I was soo close. You can read my journal if u want more insight:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210925

Anyway heres the convo:

Me:Hey whats up, it's Milks from calc
Her:Hey :) & nothing much. Hbu?
Me:Great. Hey I was thinking we should go bowling this week, is Friday or Saturday a better day for u?
Her:I already have plans Friday & then I work on Saturday.
Me:Alright, then we'll go next week. When r u free?
Her:I have absolutely no clue.

I just really want to get atleast a date. I feel like id be able to change her mind
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The feeling I get is she is not interested at all otherwise she would have managed her time to out with you.
 
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GetBetter said:
The feeling I get is she is not interested at all otherwise she would have managed her time to out with you.
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Yeah, she's definitely not interested, that's no question. I just wanna know if there's something I can do to raise her IL or anything. I was never really experienced when it came to girls, and I feel like with this girl I've done better than I have with past ones. I just don't wanna start all over with a new girl seeing as how I've tried pretty hard with this one.

I feel like I can still do something to turn it around. I'm probably just giving myself false hope and living in a fantasy. Idk... it just sucks man.

I decided to just not respond. I guess I'll try again in a week, if she dodges again then I'll just have to give up for good.
 
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if you know her really well and have been trying to get her for weeks, give up and move on

if this is just the beginning, keep on trucking

if she hasn't seen your bag of tricks, her IL could go up, if she already knows you enough to judge what she thinks of you, then it's over her mind won't change unless you change radically and suddenly for some reason.
 
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I don't know her that well. Ive barely had more than 10 mins of convo with this chick.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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