"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How should I respond to this text?

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Or should I not respond at all? And try one more time in a week?

I know her IL is kinda low it's just I felt like I was doing so well... And I was soo close. You can read my journal if u want more insight:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210925

Anyway heres the convo:

Me:Hey whats up, it's Milks from calc
Her:Hey :) & nothing much. Hbu?
Me:Great. Hey I was thinking we should go bowling this week, is Friday or Saturday a better day for u?
Her:I already have plans Friday & then I work on Saturday.
Me:Alright, then we'll go next week. When r u free?
Her:I have absolutely no clue.

I just really want to get atleast a date. I feel like id be able to change her mind
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The feeling I get is she is not interested at all otherwise she would have managed her time to out with you.
 
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GetBetter said:
The feeling I get is she is not interested at all otherwise she would have managed her time to out with you.
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Yeah, she's definitely not interested, that's no question. I just wanna know if there's something I can do to raise her IL or anything. I was never really experienced when it came to girls, and I feel like with this girl I've done better than I have with past ones. I just don't wanna start all over with a new girl seeing as how I've tried pretty hard with this one.

I feel like I can still do something to turn it around. I'm probably just giving myself false hope and living in a fantasy. Idk... it just sucks man.

I decided to just not respond. I guess I'll try again in a week, if she dodges again then I'll just have to give up for good.
 
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if you know her really well and have been trying to get her for weeks, give up and move on

if this is just the beginning, keep on trucking

if she hasn't seen your bag of tricks, her IL could go up, if she already knows you enough to judge what she thinks of you, then it's over her mind won't change unless you change radically and suddenly for some reason.
 
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I don't know her that well. Ive barely had more than 10 mins of convo with this chick.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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