"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How should I respond to this text?

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Or should I not respond at all? And try one more time in a week?

I know her IL is kinda low it's just I felt like I was doing so well... And I was soo close. You can read my journal if u want more insight:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210925

Anyway heres the convo:

Me:Hey whats up, it's Milks from calc
Her:Hey :) & nothing much. Hbu?
Me:Great. Hey I was thinking we should go bowling this week, is Friday or Saturday a better day for u?
Her:I already have plans Friday & then I work on Saturday.
Me:Alright, then we'll go next week. When r u free?
Her:I have absolutely no clue.

I just really want to get atleast a date. I feel like id be able to change her mind
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The feeling I get is she is not interested at all otherwise she would have managed her time to out with you.
 
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GetBetter said:
The feeling I get is she is not interested at all otherwise she would have managed her time to out with you.
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Yeah, she's definitely not interested, that's no question. I just wanna know if there's something I can do to raise her IL or anything. I was never really experienced when it came to girls, and I feel like with this girl I've done better than I have with past ones. I just don't wanna start all over with a new girl seeing as how I've tried pretty hard with this one.

I feel like I can still do something to turn it around. I'm probably just giving myself false hope and living in a fantasy. Idk... it just sucks man.

I decided to just not respond. I guess I'll try again in a week, if she dodges again then I'll just have to give up for good.
 
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if you know her really well and have been trying to get her for weeks, give up and move on

if this is just the beginning, keep on trucking

if she hasn't seen your bag of tricks, her IL could go up, if she already knows you enough to judge what she thinks of you, then it's over her mind won't change unless you change radically and suddenly for some reason.
 
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I don't know her that well. Ive barely had more than 10 mins of convo with this chick.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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