"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How should I reply?
- Thread starter SayWord?
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Its to soon for that. I need something a little subtleHandyAndy said:"Buttsecks"
I'm going to try that out. When she replies ill updateSlick101 said:From where can I start eating you?
Update
Me:where can I start eating you?
Her:I'm not sure what you mean by that...and I'm not sure if I want to know.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I seriously dont even know how to combat her response back.I mean Id say its game over for now but Im sure other guys here would know something cause Im stuck even trying to figure something logical to say without making you look even stupider sorry man
I don't really take the internert serious. I like to play around. Btw, this chick and I are on pof.com if that matter619joe said:I wouldnt have gone with that man.Its a random response yes but although I love that sort of stupid ****,any random wierd guy woulda said that and it doesnt really get you anywhere.You shoulda just kept her mind wandering on what you were gonna do bro.She didnt know and she was interested in finding out I bet,but you just creepified it out."Its a pretty crazy idea,id tell ya but (facebook,myspace) would probably block all the contents of the message for it being too raunchy" <Thats taking it a lil to the extreme but high risk=high reward at times.If shes DTF and not shy,i would said something along those lines
I seriously dont even know how to combat her response back.I mean Id say its game over for now but Im sure other guys here would know something cause Im stuck even trying to figure something logical to say without making you look even stupider sorry man
Infact Ill see a girl online (friend) and just say "rawrrrr".Random?Yes but it can lead to more stupid **** like her saying "woof" and keep playing around with it.One time I ended up saying "meooow" and then replying "crap i picked the wussiest animal ever to immitate!ill just stick with the tiger for now".
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.