"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How should I reply?
- Thread starter SayWord?
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Its to soon for that. I need something a little subtleHandyAndy said:"Buttsecks"
I'm going to try that out. When she replies ill updateSlick101 said:From where can I start eating you?
Update
Me:where can I start eating you?
Her:I'm not sure what you mean by that...and I'm not sure if I want to know.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I seriously dont even know how to combat her response back.I mean Id say its game over for now but Im sure other guys here would know something cause Im stuck even trying to figure something logical to say without making you look even stupider sorry man
I don't really take the internert serious. I like to play around. Btw, this chick and I are on pof.com if that matter619joe said:I wouldnt have gone with that man.Its a random response yes but although I love that sort of stupid ****,any random wierd guy woulda said that and it doesnt really get you anywhere.You shoulda just kept her mind wandering on what you were gonna do bro.She didnt know and she was interested in finding out I bet,but you just creepified it out."Its a pretty crazy idea,id tell ya but (facebook,myspace) would probably block all the contents of the message for it being too raunchy" <Thats taking it a lil to the extreme but high risk=high reward at times.If shes DTF and not shy,i would said something along those lines
I seriously dont even know how to combat her response back.I mean Id say its game over for now but Im sure other guys here would know something cause Im stuck even trying to figure something logical to say without making you look even stupider sorry man
Infact Ill see a girl online (friend) and just say "rawrrrr".Random?Yes but it can lead to more stupid **** like her saying "woof" and keep playing around with it.One time I ended up saying "meooow" and then replying "crap i picked the wussiest animal ever to immitate!ill just stick with the tiger for now".
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.