"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I need help with a follow up.
I messaged this chick

Subject:You gonna eat your cornbread?

Me:Can I borrow you? I give you back;I promise ;)

Her:Hmm,I'm not sure.What do you plan on doing with me?

Any help is welcome
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Slick101 said:
From where can I start eating you?
I'm going to try that out. When she replies ill update

Update

Me:where can I start eating you?

Her:I'm not sure what you mean by that...and I'm not sure if I want to know.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I wouldnt have gone with that man.Its a random response yes but although I love that sort of stupid ****,any random wierd guy woulda said that and it doesnt really get you anywhere.You shoulda just kept her mind wandering on what you were gonna do bro.She didnt know and she was interested in finding out I bet,but you just creepified it out."Its a pretty crazy idea,id tell ya but (facebook,myspace) would probably block all the contents of the message for it being too raunchy" <Thats taking it a lil to the extreme but high risk=high reward at times.If shes DTF and not shy,i would said something along those lines

I seriously dont even know how to combat her response back.I mean Id say its game over for now but Im sure other guys here would know something cause Im stuck even trying to figure something logical to say without making you look even stupider sorry man
 

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619joe said:
I wouldnt have gone with that man.Its a random response yes but although I love that sort of stupid ****,any random wierd guy woulda said that and it doesnt really get you anywhere.You shoulda just kept her mind wandering on what you were gonna do bro.She didnt know and she was interested in finding out I bet,but you just creepified it out."Its a pretty crazy idea,id tell ya but (facebook,myspace) would probably block all the contents of the message for it being too raunchy" <Thats taking it a lil to the extreme but high risk=high reward at times.If shes DTF and not shy,i would said something along those lines

I seriously dont even know how to combat her response back.I mean Id say its game over for now but Im sure other guys here would know something cause Im stuck even trying to figure something logical to say without making you look even stupider sorry man
I don't really take the internert serious. I like to play around. Btw, this chick and I are on pof.com if that matter
 

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I understand yeah but if by playing around means saying something stupid and hoping for sucess,its not gonna end that great.Im all up for playing around but you gotta atleast lead her onto something.What would make her wanna get to know you with that comment?I dont see much and I typically say such stupid **** on the net.

Infact Ill see a girl online (friend) and just say "rawrrrr".Random?Yes but it can lead to more stupid **** like her saying "woof" and keep playing around with it.One time I ended up saying "meooow" and then replying "crap i picked the wussiest animal ever to immitate!ill just stick with the tiger for now".
 

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I know I chalked up another L

Live and learn

Btw,ill never do this on myspace and facebook because it will mess up my reputation.
 

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exactly man thats the way to think about it forsure
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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