So I went to take my dog out for a walk, and there was a fine woman smoking a cig at her garden gate. She called me over and started asking about my dog, then introduced herself. Just made some small talk and she said she's seen me around the area a few times (I didn't even know she was my neighbor). I want to get to know her better, and i don't want to just randomly knock on her door. How should I go about it?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How should I progress with her?
- Thread starter BluntMan
- Start date
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She asked about your dog and.... what? What happened? Did you get her number? Why not?
She asked about the dog, then started initiating with me, she introduced herself and called me babe. Just general questions. And the reason why i didn't try to get her number is cause my phone is broken atm. But she lives 4 doors away for me so it's easier. Also, she's like... 28, and i'm 20.
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
She called you babe then what did you do? Blush?... did you giggle?
You just got friendzoned.
You just got friendzoned.
Basically she introduced herself, i introduced myself, and she said 'nice to meet you babe' and then we hugged.
EDIT: I most definitely didn't get friendzoned. She stumbled her words when she said bye, and the 'zone' doesn't even exist.
EDIT: I most definitely didn't get friendzoned. She stumbled her words when she said bye, and the 'zone' doesn't even exist.
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