I've been going out with this one girl everything was going pretty good, she went out of town for a week with family. I picked her up from the airport everything was cool. Now I'm getting the "I'm really busy" treatment. What usually causes such an abrupt change, we usually see each other a few times a week but we haven't hung out for about 3 days and very little communication. She called me at around 11:00 last night, to say she was tired from work and going to bed. What should my actions be? Do I say anything about the sudden change?
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how should I move forward?
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Take a look at some material here on the site (not forum posts, bible stuff. random forum posts can be pretty random). Then see if you can identify something you didn't do right. If you can't then move on and if this happens again with another girl, THEN maybe take a serious look at what you're doing wrong.
Don't get too hung up over it until then.
Don't get too hung up over it until then.
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Maybe she's just really busy right now and doesnt have time for you. It doesnt mean she doesnt like you, just that she's busy. Quit being so damn clingy.
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Unflushables could be right dude.
Its only when the "I'm so busy and tired treatment" keeps up that you know its bullsh!t and she's seeing someone else or considering cutting you loose.
Give her some time, give her a chance and maybe things will turn around.
The chronically busy and tired thing only can be kept up credibly by chicks who are doctors or nurses.
Its only when the "I'm so busy and tired treatment" keeps up that you know its bullsh!t and she's seeing someone else or considering cutting you loose.
Give her some time, give her a chance and maybe things will turn around.
The chronically busy and tired thing only can be kept up credibly by chicks who are doctors or nurses.
Well, I was right, I got my walking papers today. I think maybe an ex had something to do with it, she was in a relationship previously that didn't work out and I believe she was the "dumpee".
We talked about it and I just did everything I could to seem upbeat about it, I told her "I guess the timing wasn't right" I was hurt by it but looking that way will only make it worse, however she was looking at me like a I was a sad puppy. Hopefully I left with dignity.
Sucks though, she had alot of traits I really liked, plus to be upfront about her feelings instead of dragging it on and making me feel like sh*t for a few weeks she just came out with it.
I was about to write some "AFC" sh*t and say I hope she calls back but you know what? F*ck it! Back to the grind!
We talked about it and I just did everything I could to seem upbeat about it, I told her "I guess the timing wasn't right" I was hurt by it but looking that way will only make it worse, however she was looking at me like a I was a sad puppy. Hopefully I left with dignity.
Sucks though, she had alot of traits I really liked, plus to be upfront about her feelings instead of dragging it on and making me feel like sh*t for a few weeks she just came out with it.
I was about to write some "AFC" sh*t and say I hope she calls back but you know what? F*ck it! Back to the grind!
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You played it beautifully movistar.
Despite her looking at you like a sad puppy if you did a good enough acting job of not looking like that sad puppy but someone who accepted things with a quiet understanding she may begin to wonder about why it was so easy for you to let go of her which could end her back up with you overtime.
Anyway she gets points for telling you all this to your face instead of being some coward about it but still she's pretty sleazy to of been going behind your back with this other guy be it an ex or not.
Good on ya though man for taking the attitude of getting back in the grind.
Thats the only way to do it.
Despite her looking at you like a sad puppy if you did a good enough acting job of not looking like that sad puppy but someone who accepted things with a quiet understanding she may begin to wonder about why it was so easy for you to let go of her which could end her back up with you overtime.
Anyway she gets points for telling you all this to your face instead of being some coward about it but still she's pretty sleazy to of been going behind your back with this other guy be it an ex or not.
Good on ya though man for taking the attitude of getting back in the grind.
Thats the only way to do it.
Thanks KontrollerX, thats just what I need to hear.
I only assume she went back to to X because it was so sudden, but I don't know for sure.
I only assume she went back to to X because it was so sudden, but I don't know for sure.
KontrollerX said:You played it beautifully movistar.
Despite her looking at you like a sad puppy if you did a good enough acting job of not looking like that sad puppy but someone who accepted things with a quiet understanding she may begin to wonder about why it was so easy for you to let go of her which could end her back up with you overtime.
Anyway she gets points for telling you all this to your face instead of being some coward about it but still she's pretty sleazy to of been going behind your back with this other guy be it an ex or not.
Good on ya though man for taking the attitude of getting back in the grind.
Thats the only way to do it.
Keep moving your head, try some lateral movement, if he tries to run cut off the ring, keep your chin down, and when he throws that jab slip it and come in with a combination from the inside and that big overhand right of yours.
bah, don't ever take her back. Do a forum search for the "Anti-Dump's Machine" series by Pook, and you will understand everything.if you did a good enough acting job of not looking like that sad puppy but someone who accepted things with a quiet understanding she may begin to wonder about why it was so easy for you to let go of her which could end her back up with you overtime.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.