Ive been gettin down with a girl I know for a few months almost daily but we dont call ourselves a couple ,and for fourth of july were prolly gonna be goin to this party at her ex's house......thing is this guy will never get over her and I know the party will be an awkward situation........ im not sure how i should go about it,should I just tell her how I feel or just not give a **** or take some other girls or whatever ...I just wanted to see how some "DJ"s would deal with this
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How should I handle this
- Thread starter rocksoff
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
I would love to give you the perfect execution on how to handle this and similar situations, but I can't. I can't bring myself to help somebody who uses the word "prolly".
I dont want advice from the "Gangster Of Love" anywaysGangster Of Love said:I would love to give you the perfect execution on how to handle this and similar situations, but I can't. I can't bring myself to help somebody who uses the word "prolly".
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Bet ya prolly dorocksoff said:I dont want advice from the "Gangster Of Love" anyways
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Kevin Cass
Don Juan
go to the party and have fun, you've got nothing to lose
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I don't understand the problem. Any drama would be between her and her ex, how are you involved? If she's cool with going there shouldn't be a reason why you shouldn't be cool as well. Everyone has history and towns are small so you're bound to run into exs sooner or later, the both of you. Realize if you've done your job and your girl is indeed your girl then the rest is petty. Have a good time at the party and don't let highschool drama get in the way.
lol...I dont want advice from the "Gangster Of Love" anyways
I think Kevin is probably right. If she wh*res around on you then you'll just know that she wasn't worthy of an LTR.