Ive been gettin down with a girl I know for a few months almost daily but we dont call ourselves a couple ,and for fourth of july were prolly gonna be goin to this party at her ex's house......thing is this guy will never get over her and I know the party will be an awkward situation........ im not sure how i should go about it,should I just tell her how I feel or just not give a **** or take some other girls or whatever ...I just wanted to see how some "DJ"s would deal with this
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How should I handle this
- Thread starter rocksoff
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
I would love to give you the perfect execution on how to handle this and similar situations, but I can't. I can't bring myself to help somebody who uses the word "prolly".
I dont want advice from the "Gangster Of Love" anywaysGangster Of Love said:I would love to give you the perfect execution on how to handle this and similar situations, but I can't. I can't bring myself to help somebody who uses the word "prolly".
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Bet ya prolly dorocksoff said:I dont want advice from the "Gangster Of Love" anyways
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Kevin Cass
Don Juan
go to the party and have fun, you've got nothing to lose
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I don't understand the problem. Any drama would be between her and her ex, how are you involved? If she's cool with going there shouldn't be a reason why you shouldn't be cool as well. Everyone has history and towns are small so you're bound to run into exs sooner or later, the both of you. Realize if you've done your job and your girl is indeed your girl then the rest is petty. Have a good time at the party and don't let highschool drama get in the way.
lol...I dont want advice from the "Gangster Of Love" anyways
I think Kevin is probably right. If she wh*res around on you then you'll just know that she wasn't worthy of an LTR.