Ive been gettin down with a girl I know for a few months almost daily but we dont call ourselves a couple ,and for fourth of july were prolly gonna be goin to this party at her ex's house......thing is this guy will never get over her and I know the party will be an awkward situation........ im not sure how i should go about it,should I just tell her how I feel or just not give a **** or take some other girls or whatever ...I just wanted to see how some "DJ"s would deal with this
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How should I handle this
- Thread starter rocksoff
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
I would love to give you the perfect execution on how to handle this and similar situations, but I can't. I can't bring myself to help somebody who uses the word "prolly".
I dont want advice from the "Gangster Of Love" anywaysGangster Of Love said:I would love to give you the perfect execution on how to handle this and similar situations, but I can't. I can't bring myself to help somebody who uses the word "prolly".
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Bet ya prolly dorocksoff said:I dont want advice from the "Gangster Of Love" anyways
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Kevin Cass
Don Juan
go to the party and have fun, you've got nothing to lose
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I don't understand the problem. Any drama would be between her and her ex, how are you involved? If she's cool with going there shouldn't be a reason why you shouldn't be cool as well. Everyone has history and towns are small so you're bound to run into exs sooner or later, the both of you. Realize if you've done your job and your girl is indeed your girl then the rest is petty. Have a good time at the party and don't let highschool drama get in the way.
lol...I dont want advice from the "Gangster Of Love" anyways
I think Kevin is probably right. If she wh*res around on you then you'll just know that she wasn't worthy of an LTR.