“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How should I end it?

stuka1939

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I am 31 and already hung out with this 23 year old three times. I was not too attracted to her from the beginning, but she was decent and I figured maybe I could "hook up" with her.

The problem is, she lives at home and so do I. She is also not that type of girl (so it seems). This girl seems alot more into me than vice versa, which makes me uncomfortable (I would rather be the one getting dumped).

I am supposed to go to this bar with her tomorrow night and will probably still go.

Should I end it on myspace, in person (tomorrow night) ignore her calls, or end it on the phone?

I kind of feel ignoring her and the myspace thing is the cowards way out...but I have only been out with her a few times.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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stuka1939 said:
She is also not that type of girl (so it seems).
There's an easy out. Just start pushing her hard for more physical stuff. "Put out or I will have to move on." If she obliges, it's what you wanted anyways, right?
 

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Phyzzle said:
There's an easy out. Just start pushing her hard for more physical stuff. "Put out or I will have to move on." If she obliges, it's what you wanted anyways, right?
I couldn't do that, that is borderline coercion/sexual assault.
 

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What part of Jersey are you from?
 

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What part of Jersey are you from?

Central.

Too late, I told her on myspace It would be best to not see each other. I figure after only three dates, I don't OWE her a face to face talk or phonecall.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's too late to answer, but I bet if you acted AFC she'd have ended it by the 4th date :)
 
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