"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How should i close this girl?

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Ok, there is this chick i see every now and then when i'm at a bar. While there we talk and have fun. I only see her like once in a month or so, but it's always good. Good vibes, I make her smile, I kino her a lot and she responds positively to that. I have the feeling i have got to make a move the next time i see her or else it'll be just too long.

Now, like i said, it's in a bar area. So she's with friends. I don't have a problem kissing a girl in front of my friends, but girls usually do. I've been thinking of ways to get her somewhere a little more private and away from her friends. Are there some handy tactics to do that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You first want to show her friends some attention here. Her friends are going to be the determining factor if you will spend "alone time" with her. You can play this nice by doing some LOI's and talking to her friends more when you see her. If you continue to do this, she will be coming for you. If you have the friends approval, they will also be cool with you spending "private" time with her.
 
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"LOI"?

That's a good tip. I think her friends will be ok with it already though. I don't know how i should put it into words to get her alone. That's my problem. "hey i gotta show you something" might create the wrong expectations.

I read about a little tactic where you say "i gotta tell you a secret". And pretend you gonna wisper in her ear but you kiss her on the cheek in front of her ear. Sounds like a good tactic and i'm gonna definitely try it. But first i need a way to get her alone :)
 
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How about, "Write (type up) your number. Looks like you are a fun person, we need to get together soon."?
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
How about, "Write (type up) your number. Looks like you are a fun person, we need to get together soon."?
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You must be a rocket scientist. That was genius, you should patent it.

ps snow, for as long as you been here, your asking rookie questions.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You must be a rocket scientist. That was genius, you should patent it.

ps snow, for as long as you been here, your asking rookie questions.
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and you must be a republican. :moon:

Your response to snow proves just why I responded to him like I did. You wouldn't understand. Stick to finding ways to spend Paul McCartney's money. Better yet, spend more time researching and learning how boys "Learn To Masterbate".
 
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ISO her away from her friends?
 
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Yea? How? Come on dudes, give me something useful.
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Grab her by the f.ucking hand and take her away from her friends.

Close.

Foreplay.

Bang.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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