"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How should i close this girl?

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Ok, there is this chick i see every now and then when i'm at a bar. While there we talk and have fun. I only see her like once in a month or so, but it's always good. Good vibes, I make her smile, I kino her a lot and she responds positively to that. I have the feeling i have got to make a move the next time i see her or else it'll be just too long.

Now, like i said, it's in a bar area. So she's with friends. I don't have a problem kissing a girl in front of my friends, but girls usually do. I've been thinking of ways to get her somewhere a little more private and away from her friends. Are there some handy tactics to do that?
 

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You first want to show her friends some attention here. Her friends are going to be the determining factor if you will spend "alone time" with her. You can play this nice by doing some LOI's and talking to her friends more when you see her. If you continue to do this, she will be coming for you. If you have the friends approval, they will also be cool with you spending "private" time with her.
 

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"LOI"?

That's a good tip. I think her friends will be ok with it already though. I don't know how i should put it into words to get her alone. That's my problem. "hey i gotta show you something" might create the wrong expectations.

I read about a little tactic where you say "i gotta tell you a secret". And pretend you gonna wisper in her ear but you kiss her on the cheek in front of her ear. Sounds like a good tactic and i'm gonna definitely try it. But first i need a way to get her alone :)
 

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How about, "Write (type up) your number. Looks like you are a fun person, we need to get together soon."?
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
How about, "Write (type up) your number. Looks like you are a fun person, we need to get together soon."?
You must be a rocket scientist. That was genius, you should patent it.

ps snow, for as long as you been here, your asking rookie questions.
 

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MacAvoy said:
You must be a rocket scientist. That was genius, you should patent it.

ps snow, for as long as you been here, your asking rookie questions.
and you must be a republican. :moon:

Your response to snow proves just why I responded to him like I did. You wouldn't understand. Stick to finding ways to spend Paul McCartney's money. Better yet, spend more time researching and learning how boys "Learn To Masterbate".
 

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ISO her away from her friends?
 

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snowdog said:
Yea? How? Come on dudes, give me something useful.
Grab her by the f.ucking hand and take her away from her friends.

Close.

Foreplay.

Bang.

FR.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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