"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How should i close this girl?

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Ok, there is this chick i see every now and then when i'm at a bar. While there we talk and have fun. I only see her like once in a month or so, but it's always good. Good vibes, I make her smile, I kino her a lot and she responds positively to that. I have the feeling i have got to make a move the next time i see her or else it'll be just too long.

Now, like i said, it's in a bar area. So she's with friends. I don't have a problem kissing a girl in front of my friends, but girls usually do. I've been thinking of ways to get her somewhere a little more private and away from her friends. Are there some handy tactics to do that?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You first want to show her friends some attention here. Her friends are going to be the determining factor if you will spend "alone time" with her. You can play this nice by doing some LOI's and talking to her friends more when you see her. If you continue to do this, she will be coming for you. If you have the friends approval, they will also be cool with you spending "private" time with her.
 
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"LOI"?

That's a good tip. I think her friends will be ok with it already though. I don't know how i should put it into words to get her alone. That's my problem. "hey i gotta show you something" might create the wrong expectations.

I read about a little tactic where you say "i gotta tell you a secret". And pretend you gonna wisper in her ear but you kiss her on the cheek in front of her ear. Sounds like a good tactic and i'm gonna definitely try it. But first i need a way to get her alone :)
 
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How about, "Write (type up) your number. Looks like you are a fun person, we need to get together soon."?
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
How about, "Write (type up) your number. Looks like you are a fun person, we need to get together soon."?
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You must be a rocket scientist. That was genius, you should patent it.

ps snow, for as long as you been here, your asking rookie questions.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MacAvoy said:
You must be a rocket scientist. That was genius, you should patent it.

ps snow, for as long as you been here, your asking rookie questions.
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and you must be a republican. :moon:

Your response to snow proves just why I responded to him like I did. You wouldn't understand. Stick to finding ways to spend Paul McCartney's money. Better yet, spend more time researching and learning how boys "Learn To Masterbate".
 
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ISO her away from her friends?
 
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Yea? How? Come on dudes, give me something useful.
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Grab her by the f.ucking hand and take her away from her friends.

Close.

Foreplay.

Bang.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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