"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How should I approch learning

MackJr

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I know enough seduction to get by, but I've been thinking about mastering a seduction/manipulation technology like DJism or NLP. It's more about career than about pure sex.

How should I approach this? Would it be better to start with one technique and do it over an over again until I'd mastered it, then go on, or should I read the DJ bible or NLP books over and over again, picking up new stuff each time?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Brad

Mack Jr

Walk, talk and act like Brad Pitt.

Check out the scene in the coffee shop in his moive "Meet Joe Black."

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Well, if you put 100 DJ "Masters" in a room, you'll get 100 exteremly different people that approach things in different ways. You cannot be a master of something by reading or following advice given by others. You can get good at it. But to MASTER it, you'll have to go out there, and find methods that work for YOU.

Personally, I'd do it a chunk at a time and master it before moving on.

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I guess I pretty much know that I need to approach this in pieces, I'm just seeing that there's so much more for me to learn. It's kinda frustrating.
 

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Go talk to girls. Figure out what works and what doesn't.

The "masters" didn't have "masters" to learn from...they had to have gotten good SOMEWHERE.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I guess I pretty much know that I need to approach this in pieces, I'm just seeing that there's so much more for me to learn. It's kinda frustrating.

Yes, it can be very frustrating. I've learned that the most important thing to do is change your inner-game 'first', everything else will fall into place. Once you have your game together, you'll notice that techniques, tricks, methods, really aren't all that important.
 
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