Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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MackJr

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I know enough seduction to get by, but I've been thinking about mastering a seduction/manipulation technology like DJism or NLP. It's more about career than about pure sex.

How should I approach this? Would it be better to start with one technique and do it over an over again until I'd mastered it, then go on, or should I read the DJ bible or NLP books over and over again, picking up new stuff each time?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Brad

Mack Jr

Walk, talk and act like Brad Pitt.

Check out the scene in the coffee shop in his moive "Meet Joe Black."

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Well, if you put 100 DJ "Masters" in a room, you'll get 100 exteremly different people that approach things in different ways. You cannot be a master of something by reading or following advice given by others. You can get good at it. But to MASTER it, you'll have to go out there, and find methods that work for YOU.

Personally, I'd do it a chunk at a time and master it before moving on.

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I guess I pretty much know that I need to approach this in pieces, I'm just seeing that there's so much more for me to learn. It's kinda frustrating.
 

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Go talk to girls. Figure out what works and what doesn't.

The "masters" didn't have "masters" to learn from...they had to have gotten good SOMEWHERE.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I guess I pretty much know that I need to approach this in pieces, I'm just seeing that there's so much more for me to learn. It's kinda frustrating.

Yes, it can be very frustrating. I've learned that the most important thing to do is change your inner-game 'first', everything else will fall into place. Once you have your game together, you'll notice that techniques, tricks, methods, really aren't all that important.
 
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