"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How should I approch learning

MackJr

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I know enough seduction to get by, but I've been thinking about mastering a seduction/manipulation technology like DJism or NLP. It's more about career than about pure sex.

How should I approach this? Would it be better to start with one technique and do it over an over again until I'd mastered it, then go on, or should I read the DJ bible or NLP books over and over again, picking up new stuff each time?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cave dweller

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Brad

Mack Jr

Walk, talk and act like Brad Pitt.

Check out the scene in the coffee shop in his moive "Meet Joe Black."

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Well, if you put 100 DJ "Masters" in a room, you'll get 100 exteremly different people that approach things in different ways. You cannot be a master of something by reading or following advice given by others. You can get good at it. But to MASTER it, you'll have to go out there, and find methods that work for YOU.

Personally, I'd do it a chunk at a time and master it before moving on.

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I guess I pretty much know that I need to approach this in pieces, I'm just seeing that there's so much more for me to learn. It's kinda frustrating.
 

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Go talk to girls. Figure out what works and what doesn't.

The "masters" didn't have "masters" to learn from...they had to have gotten good SOMEWHERE.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I guess I pretty much know that I need to approach this in pieces, I'm just seeing that there's so much more for me to learn. It's kinda frustrating.

Yes, it can be very frustrating. I've learned that the most important thing to do is change your inner-game 'first', everything else will fall into place. Once you have your game together, you'll notice that techniques, tricks, methods, really aren't all that important.
 
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