"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How should I approach this

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Yeah, I know, I know, I knew I'd get this from ya, Dee-zy :)

I'm almost positive this guy is her BF, because I just felt it, and I'm not about to go down that route again. I've already been into a girl with a BF before once, and it was a terrible experience that I'd rather not get into again.

I'll ask her to coffee tomorrow, if she's game for that, I'll talk with her, get it out of her whether she has a BF without showing any interest in her because at this point, this girl in my mind has been nexted.

Do you really expect me to try to get this girl even though it's pretty clear that she has a BF? I thought DJs were supposed to stay away from that sort of crapola?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HOW IS IT CLEAR THAT SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND??????????????

You know what, I don't think I'm going to waste my time helping you anymore.

Help yourself first.
 
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It's clear enough from my viewpoint that this guy was her BF, I mean, if you were there, it would have been relatively obvious. But I'll make sure tomorrow though, and I'll let you know:)
 
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