"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How should I approach this

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Yeah, I know, I know, I knew I'd get this from ya, Dee-zy :)

I'm almost positive this guy is her BF, because I just felt it, and I'm not about to go down that route again. I've already been into a girl with a BF before once, and it was a terrible experience that I'd rather not get into again.

I'll ask her to coffee tomorrow, if she's game for that, I'll talk with her, get it out of her whether she has a BF without showing any interest in her because at this point, this girl in my mind has been nexted.

Do you really expect me to try to get this girl even though it's pretty clear that she has a BF? I thought DJs were supposed to stay away from that sort of crapola?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HOW IS IT CLEAR THAT SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND??????????????

You know what, I don't think I'm going to waste my time helping you anymore.

Help yourself first.
 
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It's clear enough from my viewpoint that this guy was her BF, I mean, if you were there, it would have been relatively obvious. But I'll make sure tomorrow though, and I'll let you know:)
 
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