"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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becker

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Yeah, I know, I know, I knew I'd get this from ya, Dee-zy :)

I'm almost positive this guy is her BF, because I just felt it, and I'm not about to go down that route again. I've already been into a girl with a BF before once, and it was a terrible experience that I'd rather not get into again.

I'll ask her to coffee tomorrow, if she's game for that, I'll talk with her, get it out of her whether she has a BF without showing any interest in her because at this point, this girl in my mind has been nexted.

Do you really expect me to try to get this girl even though it's pretty clear that she has a BF? I thought DJs were supposed to stay away from that sort of crapola?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HOW IS IT CLEAR THAT SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND??????????????

You know what, I don't think I'm going to waste my time helping you anymore.

Help yourself first.
 
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It's clear enough from my viewpoint that this guy was her BF, I mean, if you were there, it would have been relatively obvious. But I'll make sure tomorrow though, and I'll let you know:)
 
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