how react to this situation with her?

[Ryan Adams]

met this girl we got it off got along great by the 3rd date we smashed amazing sex.... afterwords we were supposed to go on a date on a Monday I worked late so couldn't make it. then same thing happened Tuesday and Wednesday. then untold her the movie I asked her to see with me that I had already saw it sunday. she got annoyed ofcourse and we never met last week. ever since contact has been very short with her etc. how should i go about this situation?

 

[EyeBRollin]

You messed up when you cancelled without a definite counter offer. You have to always close the deal immediately. Since you didn't do that, she doesn't take you seriously anymore (mainly because she doesn't believe you are serious about her).

I would try to make a definite date one more time with her. If she doesn't accept, delete her number. But this is 100% your mistake.

 

[Ryan Adams]

i have another date with her tue. it is 100% my fault

 

[EyeBRollin]

Hopefully she shows up. Don't make the mistake again.

 

[Ryan Adams]

if she doesn't show up delete and nc

 

[Trump]

You messed up when you cancelled without a definite counter offer. You have to always close the deal immediately. Since you didn't do that, she doesn't take you seriously anymore (mainly because she doesn't believe you are serious about her).

It's his job to make her believe that he is serious?

Heck I really really liked this one girl and spent tens of thousands of dollars on her and a lot of time and energy. I didn't want to have sex with anyone else and don't think I could have been more serious about her. I asked her to marry me and she told me go to hell.

So I don't think girls care about "seriousness." They care about "usefulness."

 

[EyeBRollin]

It's his job to make her believe that he is serious?

Heck I really really liked this one girl and spent tens of thousands of dollars on her and a lot of time and energy. I didn't want to have sex with anyone else and don't think I could have been more serious about her. I asked her to marry me and she told me go to hell.

So I don't think girls care about "seriousness." They care about "usefulness."

Fair. Poor choice of words, but you get the general point. If a woman thinks you become a poor use of time, you're out. Whatever you want to call that is up to you.

 

[marmel75]

met this girl we got it off got along great by the 3rd date we smashed amazing sex.... afterwords we were supposed to go on a date on a Monday I worked late so couldn't make it. then same thing happened Tuesday and Wednesday. then untold her the movie I asked her to see with me that I had already saw it sunday. she got annoyed ofcourse and we never met last week. ever since contact has been very short with her etc. how should i go about this situation?

She thinks you just used her for sex and are playing games now. Call her on the phone and talk to her.