"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How rare is a DJ?

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I'm doing a staw poll on how rare a DJ is.

Add up

number of DJs you know
number of AFCs you know
number of Inbetweeners you know

I'll go first..

DJs: Not many
AFCs: Loads
Inbetweeners: some

that seems like a lot of AFCs :/

but I have so many friends it would be impossible to count them all, I'm so popular. (ha!)

anyway, I'm from the UK where I think things are different. People aren't used to pimps, ubers, players here, not where I'm from anyway.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A lot
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Not many


Who you know and hang around with determines how you're likely to end up. If you know tons of AFC's, and only a handful of DJ's, it doesn't take a giant mental leap to determine that you're screwed and need new friends. Also, if you can quantitively put a number on the people you know you might want to consider socializing more... then again, I've always been a believer of "it's better to have more people who know you than people you know"...
 

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i know too many people to establish how many are djs and how many are afcs:)

anyway, people i hang out with are the funny jerks that you have a lot of fun with and they all are very smooth with girls. despite this, i never saw them directly approaching a girl
 

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My first roommate here at school was a brazilian DJ who was super smooth with the ladies ... he actually took me under his wing for a while and showed me the ropes, and I am grateful to this day for what he did. A year after I roomed with him I had chicks all over me, and before that I had none. He was definatelly part of my progress towards becoming a DJ.
 

So pimp its scary

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There are so many different shades of 'DJ' that it's quite difficult to look at a guy and say that he is a 'DJ' or not. Granted, there are alot of AFC's around (or we wouldn't have some 15k+ members on this website).

I mean, You got your true pimps, they get paid for their pu$$y.

you have your soldier pimps that go around fvcking any piece of ass that moves.

You got your allstar pimps; they tag all the hottest ass.

You got your junior pimps that are learning the game.

You got your players, your macks, and your hos...

"And all the rest of you... All the rest of you are HATERS!"

Hating the game, hating the players, the pimps and the rules.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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