"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How rare is a DJ?

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I'm doing a staw poll on how rare a DJ is.

Add up

number of DJs you know
number of AFCs you know
number of Inbetweeners you know

I'll go first..

DJs: Not many
AFCs: Loads
Inbetweeners: some

that seems like a lot of AFCs :/

but I have so many friends it would be impossible to count them all, I'm so popular. (ha!)

anyway, I'm from the UK where I think things are different. People aren't used to pimps, ubers, players here, not where I'm from anyway.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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A lot
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Not many


Who you know and hang around with determines how you're likely to end up. If you know tons of AFC's, and only a handful of DJ's, it doesn't take a giant mental leap to determine that you're screwed and need new friends. Also, if you can quantitively put a number on the people you know you might want to consider socializing more... then again, I've always been a believer of "it's better to have more people who know you than people you know"...
 

Jay-X

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i know too many people to establish how many are djs and how many are afcs:)

anyway, people i hang out with are the funny jerks that you have a lot of fun with and they all are very smooth with girls. despite this, i never saw them directly approaching a girl
 

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My first roommate here at school was a brazilian DJ who was super smooth with the ladies ... he actually took me under his wing for a while and showed me the ropes, and I am grateful to this day for what he did. A year after I roomed with him I had chicks all over me, and before that I had none. He was definatelly part of my progress towards becoming a DJ.
 

So pimp its scary

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There are so many different shades of 'DJ' that it's quite difficult to look at a guy and say that he is a 'DJ' or not. Granted, there are alot of AFC's around (or we wouldn't have some 15k+ members on this website).

I mean, You got your true pimps, they get paid for their pu$$y.

you have your soldier pimps that go around fvcking any piece of ass that moves.

You got your allstar pimps; they tag all the hottest ass.

You got your junior pimps that are learning the game.

You got your players, your macks, and your hos...

"And all the rest of you... All the rest of you are HATERS!"

Hating the game, hating the players, the pimps and the rules.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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