"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How rare is a DJ?

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I'm doing a staw poll on how rare a DJ is.

Add up

number of DJs you know
number of AFCs you know
number of Inbetweeners you know

I'll go first..

DJs: Not many
AFCs: Loads
Inbetweeners: some

that seems like a lot of AFCs :/

but I have so many friends it would be impossible to count them all, I'm so popular. (ha!)

anyway, I'm from the UK where I think things are different. People aren't used to pimps, ubers, players here, not where I'm from anyway.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A lot
A little
Not many


Who you know and hang around with determines how you're likely to end up. If you know tons of AFC's, and only a handful of DJ's, it doesn't take a giant mental leap to determine that you're screwed and need new friends. Also, if you can quantitively put a number on the people you know you might want to consider socializing more... then again, I've always been a believer of "it's better to have more people who know you than people you know"...
 

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i know too many people to establish how many are djs and how many are afcs:)

anyway, people i hang out with are the funny jerks that you have a lot of fun with and they all are very smooth with girls. despite this, i never saw them directly approaching a girl
 

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My first roommate here at school was a brazilian DJ who was super smooth with the ladies ... he actually took me under his wing for a while and showed me the ropes, and I am grateful to this day for what he did. A year after I roomed with him I had chicks all over me, and before that I had none. He was definatelly part of my progress towards becoming a DJ.
 

So pimp its scary

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There are so many different shades of 'DJ' that it's quite difficult to look at a guy and say that he is a 'DJ' or not. Granted, there are alot of AFC's around (or we wouldn't have some 15k+ members on this website).

I mean, You got your true pimps, they get paid for their pu$$y.

you have your soldier pimps that go around fvcking any piece of ass that moves.

You got your allstar pimps; they tag all the hottest ass.

You got your junior pimps that are learning the game.

You got your players, your macks, and your hos...

"And all the rest of you... All the rest of you are HATERS!"

Hating the game, hating the players, the pimps and the rules.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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