"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How rare is a DJ?

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I'm doing a staw poll on how rare a DJ is.

Add up

number of DJs you know
number of AFCs you know
number of Inbetweeners you know

I'll go first..

DJs: Not many
AFCs: Loads
Inbetweeners: some

that seems like a lot of AFCs :/

but I have so many friends it would be impossible to count them all, I'm so popular. (ha!)

anyway, I'm from the UK where I think things are different. People aren't used to pimps, ubers, players here, not where I'm from anyway.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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diablo

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A lot
A little
Not many


Who you know and hang around with determines how you're likely to end up. If you know tons of AFC's, and only a handful of DJ's, it doesn't take a giant mental leap to determine that you're screwed and need new friends. Also, if you can quantitively put a number on the people you know you might want to consider socializing more... then again, I've always been a believer of "it's better to have more people who know you than people you know"...
 

Jay-X

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i know too many people to establish how many are djs and how many are afcs:)

anyway, people i hang out with are the funny jerks that you have a lot of fun with and they all are very smooth with girls. despite this, i never saw them directly approaching a girl
 

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My first roommate here at school was a brazilian DJ who was super smooth with the ladies ... he actually took me under his wing for a while and showed me the ropes, and I am grateful to this day for what he did. A year after I roomed with him I had chicks all over me, and before that I had none. He was definatelly part of my progress towards becoming a DJ.
 

So pimp its scary

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There are so many different shades of 'DJ' that it's quite difficult to look at a guy and say that he is a 'DJ' or not. Granted, there are alot of AFC's around (or we wouldn't have some 15k+ members on this website).

I mean, You got your true pimps, they get paid for their pu$$y.

you have your soldier pimps that go around fvcking any piece of ass that moves.

You got your allstar pimps; they tag all the hottest ass.

You got your junior pimps that are learning the game.

You got your players, your macks, and your hos...

"And all the rest of you... All the rest of you are HATERS!"

Hating the game, hating the players, the pimps and the rules.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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