"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How Old Do You Look?

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Do you look young, old or just about right for your age? I found a website, similar to Hot or Not, that answers that very question. Here's a link to my ugly mug:

http://ageproject.specialsnowflake.com/agegame/c893e4a3bb722f468884ea824561477f

I thought it would be cool if we all posted links to our pics and discovered exactly how old we look. Then we could see if it's true that women prefer older-looking men.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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knglerxt

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I'm 25, and people think I'm 18. I've also never had a girlfriend, so maybe that saying is true.
 

KneghtRyder

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when they guess 29 or 28 when your only 26 .... I had no idea that was older looking , I had even full shaven etc.
 

Obsidian

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wow neat. I'd never heard about Hot or Not before.

I'm tempted to add my pic to it...but I'm afraid. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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christz

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i'm gonna be 25 soon and i'm still attracting 16 year old girls lol, but that's due to the fact that everybody thinks i'm a lot younger than i actually am

http://www.myspace.com/6047850

is me, you tell me
 

ryannath

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Christz, I don't think you look that young. You look around your age, 24.
 

sparky0000

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christz said:
i'm gonna be 25 soon and i'm still attracting 16 year old girls lol, but that's due to the fact that everybody thinks i'm a lot younger than i actually am
So? I attract 25 year old guys who think I am a 16 year old boy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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djbr

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23.
 

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49. People think I'm about 35. Last year, a customer guessed 28.
 

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knglerxt said:
I'm 25, and people think I'm 18. I've also never had a girlfriend, so maybe that saying is true.
what saying?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rebound Material

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Fallen33 said:
What do you want a cookie!? Cheater! :p
yes, chocolate chip please....fcuk, im hungry now.
 

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sparky0000 said:
So? I attract 25 year old guys who think I am a 16 year old boy.
This demographic you're targeting surely do not have much standards, you know... :crackup:
 

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I'm 35, most people think I'm late 20's. Last night a chick told me she thought I was 22. Don't know how anyone could mistake me for being THAT young, but I do still get carded, so......
 

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Im 21 but im short 5'5 and skinny when I shave I look like im 15 so I all ways try to keep a goatee , a box or some stubble on my face.
 

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I would take the results of such a site with a block of salt (not just a pinch). Lotta trolls.

I'm probably hard to pin down, because my body looks very young (cut), and my face has a mix of (mostly) very young-looking features and a few others that look my age, or even a bit older.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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