"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How Old Do You Look?

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Do you look young, old or just about right for your age? I found a website, similar to Hot or Not, that answers that very question. Here's a link to my ugly mug:

http://ageproject.specialsnowflake.com/agegame/c893e4a3bb722f468884ea824561477f

I thought it would be cool if we all posted links to our pics and discovered exactly how old we look. Then we could see if it's true that women prefer older-looking men.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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knglerxt

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I'm 25, and people think I'm 18. I've also never had a girlfriend, so maybe that saying is true.
 

KneghtRyder

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when they guess 29 or 28 when your only 26 .... I had no idea that was older looking , I had even full shaven etc.
 

Obsidian

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wow neat. I'd never heard about Hot or Not before.

I'm tempted to add my pic to it...but I'm afraid. ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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christz

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i'm gonna be 25 soon and i'm still attracting 16 year old girls lol, but that's due to the fact that everybody thinks i'm a lot younger than i actually am

http://www.myspace.com/6047850

is me, you tell me
 

ryannath

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Christz, I don't think you look that young. You look around your age, 24.
 

sparky0000

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christz said:
i'm gonna be 25 soon and i'm still attracting 16 year old girls lol, but that's due to the fact that everybody thinks i'm a lot younger than i actually am
So? I attract 25 year old guys who think I am a 16 year old boy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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djbr

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23.
 

Sun Tzu

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49. People think I'm about 35. Last year, a customer guessed 28.
 

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knglerxt said:
I'm 25, and people think I'm 18. I've also never had a girlfriend, so maybe that saying is true.
what saying?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rebound Material

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Fallen33 said:
What do you want a cookie!? Cheater! :p
yes, chocolate chip please....fcuk, im hungry now.
 

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sparky0000 said:
So? I attract 25 year old guys who think I am a 16 year old boy.
This demographic you're targeting surely do not have much standards, you know... :crackup:
 

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I'm 35, most people think I'm late 20's. Last night a chick told me she thought I was 22. Don't know how anyone could mistake me for being THAT young, but I do still get carded, so......
 

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Im 21 but im short 5'5 and skinny when I shave I look like im 15 so I all ways try to keep a goatee , a box or some stubble on my face.
 

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I would take the results of such a site with a block of salt (not just a pinch). Lotta trolls.

I'm probably hard to pin down, because my body looks very young (cut), and my face has a mix of (mostly) very young-looking features and a few others that look my age, or even a bit older.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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