"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How Old Do You Look?

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Do you look young, old or just about right for your age? I found a website, similar to Hot or Not, that answers that very question. Here's a link to my ugly mug:

http://ageproject.specialsnowflake.com/agegame/c893e4a3bb722f468884ea824561477f

I thought it would be cool if we all posted links to our pics and discovered exactly how old we look. Then we could see if it's true that women prefer older-looking men.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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knglerxt

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I'm 25, and people think I'm 18. I've also never had a girlfriend, so maybe that saying is true.
 

KneghtRyder

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when they guess 29 or 28 when your only 26 .... I had no idea that was older looking , I had even full shaven etc.
 

Obsidian

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wow neat. I'd never heard about Hot or Not before.

I'm tempted to add my pic to it...but I'm afraid. ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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christz

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i'm gonna be 25 soon and i'm still attracting 16 year old girls lol, but that's due to the fact that everybody thinks i'm a lot younger than i actually am

http://www.myspace.com/6047850

is me, you tell me
 

ryannath

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Christz, I don't think you look that young. You look around your age, 24.
 

sparky0000

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christz said:
i'm gonna be 25 soon and i'm still attracting 16 year old girls lol, but that's due to the fact that everybody thinks i'm a lot younger than i actually am
So? I attract 25 year old guys who think I am a 16 year old boy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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djbr

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23.
 

Sun Tzu

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49. People think I'm about 35. Last year, a customer guessed 28.
 

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knglerxt said:
I'm 25, and people think I'm 18. I've also never had a girlfriend, so maybe that saying is true.
what saying?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rebound Material

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Fallen33 said:
What do you want a cookie!? Cheater! :p
yes, chocolate chip please....fcuk, im hungry now.
 

djbr

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sparky0000 said:
So? I attract 25 year old guys who think I am a 16 year old boy.
This demographic you're targeting surely do not have much standards, you know... :crackup:
 

STR8UP

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I'm 35, most people think I'm late 20's. Last night a chick told me she thought I was 22. Don't know how anyone could mistake me for being THAT young, but I do still get carded, so......
 

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Im 21 but im short 5'5 and skinny when I shave I look like im 15 so I all ways try to keep a goatee , a box or some stubble on my face.
 

Bonhomme

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I would take the results of such a site with a block of salt (not just a pinch). Lotta trolls.

I'm probably hard to pin down, because my body looks very young (cut), and my face has a mix of (mostly) very young-looking features and a few others that look my age, or even a bit older.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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